Dating Tips

I have been dating a while.  Again , I was very confused. The dating helped me to understand myself better .

Dating Tips

  1. Not everyone is going to like you- women had a good time on a date. They notice nothing happens after.  Did he like me? Did I do something wrong ? How do I know if he likes me?
  2. Answer: As my friend said, best not to dwell on something you can’t control. If he likes you, he will contact you . You did nothing wrong . Just wasn’t a match.
  3.  If he hasn’t contact you or said he doesn’t like you on the date, do not contact him ! There is no point . Find another guy !
  4. Only communicate with him if he wants to see you again and realize it was a mistake . You can decide then if you want to pursue it.
  5. If he is mean or says you are not worth anything , who cares?  Who is he ? Does he take care of you? He is no one. He is nothing to you. The only opinion you care about it  is yourself. That goes for anyone .
  6.  If your ex dumps you , do not contact him after. I don’t care if you miss him . You are not together anymore.  Again, communicate with him only if he contacts you again.
  7.  for number 6 & 3- delete his email or number  and social media
  8.   Block him – in reference to number #7
  9. This is not to tempt you to contact him- if you want to
  10. Think this feeling will pass- as dr laura said – do we act every time we have a feeling?
  11.  My best friend and I both feel this way . You should to. I can live with or without you. I will be fine either way . 🙂 I don’t need you.

Dating lessons and what I want 

For a long time , I was very confused . I didn’t know want .

Here is a list .

1. He had to be generous .

2. No sex until I know two things .

Do I really like him? Does he really like me ?

What has done for me ?

What do I get out of it ?

3.  He has to have money and work hard

4. Kind but not too nice

5.  Calls me sweet names

6. Make me feel good  and give lots of affection

No more online dating and a ending 

No more pint dating . There is only one guy I met on there that was s good guy . Kevin is the nicest and treated me very well .

The guys are very cheap . They expect me to just sleep with them . My best friend ‘s boyfriend has spent quite a bit of money on her . 

I decided to end things with Tom. He is cheap .  Not a match ! 

I met this guy Sam . He was the sweetest guy at first . He was mean too . 

I was starting to have feelings for very quickly . He was affectionate . 

He doesn’t like me anymore . For the first time , I felt very connected to someone. 

He took me home . I wished I asked what happened . 

It feels weird not to talk to him . Update : we are both are members on this site .  He ch our status . Which hurt 

But he doesn’t like me ? Why do I expect ? 

I miss being called princess , kitten , and him touching me . 

We even held hands . It felt so natural to me .  Now he is gone out of my life . 

Fourth of July 

Happy 4th!  🎀🎂🎊   Xoxo me 

Tips on hooking up and avoiding getting hurt

Reasons for hooking up and not getting hurt

This list is for the women that want to have some fun but not get hurt.

Of course, if you get hurt that can be inevitable. If it’s too much, you can always stop. There are rules to remain safe too.


  1. Pick a person that you haven’t dated or been in a relationship with . You won’t get hurt and possibly develop more feelings with .
  2. Wear condoms always!
  3. Don’t stay too long to avoid connecting .
  4. Get there of course on your own. If you can’t afford to go there, don’t hook up.
  5. Don’t hook up often to avoid attachment.
  6. Hook up with a nice person. It should be a good time. He at least should be nice to you.
  7. Very important. Be clear this is a hook up. It’s clear what this relationship is about. There is no confusion.

Have fun!

Lessons from my mom and a Rough week 

I had a bad weekend . I am in pain . I had my tooth pulled . I couldn’t drink this weekend . Boo ! 

I can’t drink until after thrusday . 

Lessons from my mother 

1. Don’t be friends or date anyone that is rude or disrespects you

Cut them loose .

2. What has he done for you ?- this is in the context of dating 

Does he really care you ?  Why wish him happy birthday ? Does he know or give a shit about your bday ? 

3. Don’t tell anyone your business 

4. Don’t talk to strangers 

5. You will know if he really cares for you . Me  – If there is doubt , he doesn’t care .

6.  I got this from a book . My mom will definitely agree .  Rules girls only love those who love them .