For a long time , I was very confused . I didn’t know want .
Here is a list .
1. He had to be generous .
2. No sex until I know two things .
Do I really like him? Does he really like me ?
What has done for me ?
What do I get out of it ?
3. He has to have money and work hard
4. Kind but not too nice
5. Calls me sweet names
6. Make me feel good and give lots of affection